Husband having cyber affair?

I commend your ability to keep this devastating news to yourself...I think I would been confronting my husband immediately with this.....in a very angered state at that. I think you need to talk to him about what you found. Some here will say too leave..but everyone makes mistakes. If this was the first time mistake, then I can see forgiving him. But maybe therapy together would be a good option. He was getting some type of cheap thrill by this, he knew he was wrong. Perhaps, it's for the best you discovered this, because it sounds like he was getting in over his head, and most likely was to ashamed to tell you the truth. Talk with him, I am sure he will be very remorseful, seek therapy if needed good luck.....and time will tell if he is indeed sorry....but if you find this stuff again....then you might have to explore other options.